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STAY or GO?
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AGE in PLACE
VERSUS MOVE
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Mark an "S" for
the reason to Stay.
Mark a "G" for
the reason to Go.
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(A category can be both S and G)
Total your Ss and Gs to help you formulate the decision that is right for you.
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Will a move be a "gift" to your family by not worrying about you?
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Do you have a strong emotional attachment to your home?
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Do you have pets? Are pets accepted at a prospective home?
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Can you make adequate provisions for your pets?
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Can you focus on your interests versus a big house/yard, lots of stuff?
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Are you depressed or grieving?
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Would you enjoy planned activities?
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Does downsizing seem overwhelming?
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Would you enjoy being transported to various community activities?
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Realistically, right now, what accessibility or safety modifications are needed to your present home?
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Would you enjoy having meals with others occasionally?
Or on a daily basis?
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What safety modifications do you think might be needed in the future? Will the resell value of your home be affected?
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Would you enjoy an in-house exercise/recreation center?
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Are age-in-place modifications affordable? (just a ball-park estimate)
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Would you use/enjoy an in-house computer?
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Can your maintain your home?
Can you afford to hire maintenance/ upkeep?
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Would you enjoy social interactions with peers?
Learning new hobbies?
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Can you maintain your yard?
Can you afford landscape services?
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Is it better to move now
versus later?
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Can you afford electricity and utilities in the future? Is your home energy efficient?
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Are you overwhelmed with possessions? Are you storing many possessions of your children?
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Can you drive to participate in your church or community activities?
At night?
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If there is a future medical emergency, is it better to move now versus later?
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Will familiarity and memories offset loneliness?
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Do you feel secure in your home? In your neighborhood?
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What will you do when all your friends have moved away or are gone?
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Do you have a fire escape plan?
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Do or will your children worry about your?
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Are you lonely?
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Will you need to move later in life (a forced move)?
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Are there others your age in your neighborhood?
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Is leaving "things just as they are" extremely important to you?
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Will sharing possessions now versus ater be a gift to your family?
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Who will do the sorting/cleaning out process later? Will your wishes be honored?
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How do you feel about having a caregiver come to help you?
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Can you "let go" and "move on"?
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Is it better to move when both spouses can make decisions?
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Is the thought of change frightening?
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Are you fearful your driver?s license will not be renewed?
How would that affect you?
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Have you visited some senior housing facilities? Are you aware of recent senior housing options?
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Will it be harder to downsize and adjust to a move later?
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Are you in good health? Adequate sensory acuity: Vision? Hearing? Touch? Thermal Sensitivity (always cold)?
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Do you have strength and stamina? Do you wish for an exercise regime?
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Does a move mean you are losing control of life?
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Do you have a plan if you have a medical emergency?
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How many steps and stairs do you have in and around your present home?
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Is your neighborhood changing for the better?
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What is the cost difference of aging-in-place versus alternative arrangements?
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What happens if there is a severe winter storm (no electricity) and relatives cannot travel to help you?
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Is your medical information available in case of a health emergency? (Are your medical conditions & meds posted on refrigerator??)
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Do you have long-term care insurance or adequate resources?
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What happens if you fall and cannot get up? Do you have a plan?
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How often do you lose your keys? Other items?
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Do you wish to be closer to relatives?
(or maybe move away from relatives?)
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Are you looking for a new, lighter lifestyle?
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Would moving be an opportunity to finally devote some time to YOU?
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Total Ss (Stay)
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Total Ss (Stay)
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Total Gs (Go)
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Total Gs (GO)
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The most important reason to STAY (age-in-place) is:
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The most important reason to MOVE ON is:
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The most important reason NOT to STAY (age-in-place) is:
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The most important reason NOT to MOVE ON is:
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This is how I would feel if I choose to STAY:
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This is how I would feel if choose to MOVE ON:
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